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Gossiping, threat, hitting, pushing, kicking, name calling, stealing, mean words, leaving somebody out, teasing, spreading rumors, destroying property. The use of force, threat, or coercion to abuse, intimidate, or aggressively to impose domination over others. Bullying consists of four basic types of abuse – emotional (sometimes called relational), verbal, physical, and cyber. Bullying . It typically involves subtle methods of coercion such as intimidation. Bullying in school and the workplace is also referred to as peer abuse. Robert W. Fuller has analyzed bullying in the context of rankism.

Reference:
www.google.com.ph
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bullying

TYPES OF BULLYING:

*DIRECT BULLYING (Physical Aggression): Slapping, scratching, stabbing, shoving, poking, choking, beating, scraping, pulling hair, throwing, pinching, punching and kicking.

*INDIRECT BULLYING (Attempting to socially isolate the victim): Arguing others into submission, manipulation, name calling, saying certain words that trigger a reaction from a past event, gossip/rumor, laughing, mocking, giggle, silent treatment, and lies.

Effects of bullying on people:

MENTAL HEALTH- shame, fear, low self-esteem, depression, and suicide.

PHYSICAL PROBLEMS- obvious bruises or wound from harassment, sleep disruption, bed wetting, psychosomatic aches. SOCIAL DIFFICULTY- inappropriate social skills social isolation, inaccurate social perceptions.

SCHOOL SETTING- difficult concentrating, poor academic performance, absenteeism, overall school climate and breakdown of school connectedness, and escalating school violence. SOCIETY- alcohol and drugs abuse, gang involvement, escalating violence and crime. The effects of bullying can be serious and even fatal. Victims of bullying, children and adult, are at risk of” stress related illness, suffer from short and long term emotional and behavioral problems, loneliness, depression and anxiety, low self-steem, weight loss or weight gain, and even suicide.

Characteristics of bullies:
In general, bullies have personalities that are authoritarian, they feel a strong need to control or dominate others, sometomes they have prejudices against certain groups of people. Some bullies harass others driven by envy, resentment or because they have low self-steem, and to hide their own fears or shame. Bullies want to feel better about themselves by making other people feel bad.

Reference:
www.google.com.ph: http://wiki.answers.com/Q/What_is_indirect_bullying_and_direct_bullying http://www.masskids.org/index.php?option=com content&id=15&&temid=160

TOP 10 ANTI-BULLYING TIPS:

1. LEARN ABOUT BULLYING: All kids play rough or tease each other sometimes, but bullying is intended to hurt the person and often happens more than once.

2. WALK AWAY: A bully wants to get a reaction from you by saying or doing hurtful thins. Show them that you can be strong and walk away from a bad situation.

3. BE CONFIDENT: Stand up again a bully with confidence! Don’t let their bullying affect you, because they’re just trying to hurt you.

4. TEL AN ADULT: It is very important to tell an adult or someone you trust if you or a friend is being bullied. They can help you figure it out what to do. 5. DON’T BULLY OTHER: Sometimes, we can say or do things that hurt people. It happens, try apologizing and make it right with the other person.

6. TALK WITH YOUR FRIENDS: Your friends can be a great support system. If you or a friend is being bullied, talk with them about hoe you’re feeling.

7. BE AN ALLY: Stand up for someone that you see being bullied and tell an adult the problem.

8. BE CYBER SMART: Bullying doesn’t have to happen in person. Sometimes bullied will say hurtful things on the Internet. It’s very important to also learn about cyber bullying.

9. VALUE YOURSELF: Bullying can make you feel bad, but remember you are great just the way you are.

10. BE INVOLVED: Join the fight against bullying at your school and help be a part the solution.

BY MUST BULLYING BE STOPPED?

Makes the lives of its victims miserable.
Undermines their confidence and destroys their sense of security. Can also affect children and young people’s attendance and progress at school. Can cause sadness, loneliness, low-esteem, fear, anxiety, and poor concentration, and may lead to self-harm, depression, suicidal thoughts, and in some cases, SUICIDE.

Reference:

Notebook of Benguet Police Provincial Office, p.2

HOW TO TAKE CONTROL OF BULLYING:

Reference:

PUNISHMENT WHO BULLIES SOMEONE:
1st offense- Immediately reported to the School Head, who shall inform the parents or guardian of the victim and offending the child, in a meeting called for purpose. The victim and the offending child shall referred to the Child Protection Committee (CPC) for counseling and other investigations. 2nd offense- suspension for not more than one (1) week may be imposed by School Head and the parents or guardians may be required to attend further seminars and counseling. 3rd offense- When bullying that results in serious physical injuries or death will appropriate, the case shall be dealt with in accordance with the provisions of Republic Act 9334 and its Regulations. In case, where the impossible penalty on the offending child is suspension, exclusion or expulsion, the following minimum requirements of due progress shall be complied with:

a) The child and parents or guardians must be informed of the complaint in writing;

b) The child shall be given the opportunity to answer the complaint in writing, with the assistance of the parents or guardian;

c) The decision of the school head must be in writing, stating the facts and the reasons of the decision.

d) The decision of the school head may be appealed, as provided in existing rules of the Department. Reference:

Student Handbook of Benguet NHS Main, pg.43-44.

IF YOU ARE
BEING BULLIED OR
KNOW OF SOMEONE
WHO DOES, DON’T
BE AFRAID TO TELL
IT TO AN ADULT YOU
CAN TRUST.

WHO TO CONTACT WHEN BULLIED:

BPPO EMERGENCY POLICE ASSISTANCE :
(074) 442-6515
SMART: 0928-551-9636
WCPD: 0917-319-2500

ATOK…………………………………0921-480-1585
BAKUN……………………………….0917-809-9628
BOKOD………………………………0939-358-5750
BUGUIAS…………………………….0999-992-5793
ITOGON…………………………………0921-398-7480 …… 422-3526 KABAYAN………………………………0917-809-9632
KAPANGAN…………………………….0998-974-5289
KIBUNGAN………………………….0949-677-9879
LA TRINIDAD……………………….0908-867-1855 …….422-4344 MANKAYAN……………………………0939-921-9123
SABLAN…………………………………0912-806-5128 TUBA……………………………………..0999-881-9957……..442-7561 TUBLAY…………………………………0919-970-3316……..424-1175 PPSC (Buguias)……………………….0939-907-8617

Reference:
Notebook of Benguet Police Provincial Office, last page.