Have modern families changed over the past few generations, or have people remained the same in playing each of their own leading gender role responsibilities in modern families? Some statistics show that times have now changed despite, the man’s perception of women being stay-at-home mothers to their children. In addition, women can also be the breadwinner in their families rather than the father going to work. Traditional families in contrast with modern families have exponentially changed as time has passed.
To better understand the context of this paper I will discuss the differences and similarities between modern and traditional mothers. In my opinion, I believe there are three key important responsibilities in traditional and modern family childcare, education, and healthcare. In addition, there are various things to consider when taking care of the child. For example, in the article “The Men We Carry in our Minds,” Russell Sanders, realizes as a young lad that hard-working men like his father would have to go to work leaving his mother to stay at home and take care of young Russell.
Secondly, in the story, Russell talks about men and realizes that men can sometimes be overbearing and view power, competency, efficiency, and achievement more importantly (Sanders, R. 1984). To cite another example, in early human history women were frowned upon to tend to their kids because of the high death rate which consequently led mothers to take the task of nurturing their children at home. (Henslin, J. M. 2009). In contrast, there are some moderate differences between modern and traditional mothers in childcare and education.
Even though we live in a modern time there has been a 16% percent increase in traditional mothers still taking care of their children. In addition, studies done in a class group together found that younger parents, as opposed to older parents, were placed in the 73 percent and placing traditional mothers at 86 percent. On the other hand, educating a child is equally important so the parents must decide how they will educate their children; in traditional families, it is usually the mother who tends to educate the children. For example, one of the parents may feel more strongly about supervision, discipline, and education to the child, In particular, the same cannot be said about modern parents. The reason being is that there has been a 13% percent decrease in modern mothers taking care of their children because of work-related problems. Furthermore, healthcare is another major form of responsibility for mothers. In most households, it is usually the mothers that are left behind to fend for their child throughout the first forty days of the baby being born.
Moreover, this may sometimes abrupt verbal disputes, misunderstandings, and communication problems about how they want to raise their child. In Addition, one of the parents may feel stronger about the habits and health of the child. (Neuman. F, 2013). In the same way, modern mothers are taking the leading role in taking care of the child’s health. In comparison, between modern and traditional mothers people still see a declining percentage in modern parents in regards to caregiving and healthcare. So people can conclude that there are some negative changes in modern families even though women still tend to the children.
Two more additional factors in a household must be decided when it comes to providing for the family. This leads to the second question in the matter of who will work, and who will be in charge of balancing the books as well as paying the bills. Modern and traditional mothers have always had the capability of working, paying bills, and balancing checkbooks, but because the plain definition and meaning of the word “gender” has some biological adherence, and has resulted in mothers being socially deemed incapable. (Henslin, J. M. 2009) Whereas today, modern mothers are now less likely to be stay-at-home mothers.
In contrast, modern mothers today, rather than traditional, have drastically changed and can now multitask just as well as fathers. For example, mothers today can now pay bills, work, and balance checkbooks without the help of the father. People are now seeing mothers today playing the role of the breadwinner a lot more. Lastly, families are still seeing traditional and modern mothers cleaning and doing most of the household duties around the house. Modern and traditional families are now noticing a slight differential change in mothers helping outside of the home.
Although, there has been a small change in modern and traditional mothers helping their families outside of the home. For instance, cutting the grass, or fixing the fence, and repairing things around the house. As a result, mothers today are more open to the meaning of household duties. In conclusion, to the discussion presented in this paper people can conclude that traditional mothers in comparison with modern mothers today have a higher percentage rate in childcare, wage earnings, and household duties rather than modern mothers.
All in all, I truly believe that it is very important for families to have equality to have a functional family. In addition, I still believe men should strive to do more for their other half’s. In my opinion, there has been a greater significant change over the past generations in mothers, Ultimately, it seems that modern families have relatively remained the same, and traditional families have continuously increased over the past generations. The survey was taken in partial fulfillment of the essay assignment.
- Who is (or was) the primary caregiver for the children?
- Who did most of the house cleaning?
- Who does (did) most of the landscaping?
- Who does (did) most of the meal preparation?
- Who is (was) the primary breadwinner?
- Henslin, J. M. (2009). Essentials of sociology: A down-to-earth approach, (8th ed). Boston, MA: Allyn&Bacon Neuman, F. (2013).
- Changing Gender Roles in Marriage. Retrieved from .www. psychologytoday.com/blog/fighting-fear/201301/changing-gender-roles-in-marriage
- Sanders, R. (1984). The men we carry in our minds in L. G. Kiszner S. R. Marshall Writing first with reading (5th ed). Boston, NY: Bedford/St. Martin’s.