What is success? How do we define it, how do we measure it, is it a single achievement or is it multiple accomplishments? To me defining success is so broad to pin point and directly state so I look at success in a more self-proclaimed stand point rather than from a physical one. Success can be defined in many ways but I think ultimately it means to accomplish what one has set out to do. Success is different for everyone.
Over the years I have had many failures as well as what I feel as successes, but one thing that I can say about those time that I have had success I most vividly remember what feelings I had and the emotions that came with it. I am believer of working hard to be successful. Times when I felt I had to much going on to really set out to do what I wanted to do. I felt defeated. But being successful means going through trials and tribulations. Most successful people have worked for their stability in society now.
Working hard through education, employment, or whatever they are enduring will ultimately bring success. Success may be described as the realization of an aim and for the realization of any aim hard work is essential. Hard work helps us to develop our potential to the maximum and strive for excellence in any field. Hard work makes us better prepared to face adverse situations. Hard work helps an athlete to persevere in a race and win it; it helps an average student to become extraordinary, it helps to transform destinies.
Success is basically about how you can turn adverse situations in your favor When I look at today society, I only see success be measured by superficial things that are not always tangible for everyone. For instance those who are rich, beautiful, or famous by society standards are always portrayed to be successful. This notion of success says to the rest of the world that if we are not any of those things than we are not successful, and for some people being able to attain success completely define them as a human being. What is the opposite of success?
Most people would say that it is failure, so without the possibility of success we are left with this intense feeling that we are inadequate and less than. And if we are someone who defines success in the terms of beauty and money than the sense of loneliness will have a greater effect on them because obtaining those goals may be out of ones reach and may seem a little less unrealistic than someone who wants to get a good job and own a home one day. Gratification is also a major part of what comes with success for some people.
Some will not even count achievements in their lives because they didn’t come with some type of reward. Since us as human beings can only see what is tangible, it is hard for us to define success with what is an intangible, thing we can’t see. For example one may not count them figuring out what they want to do as a career as an accomplishment but they may count the first time they received a promotion at work as a success, both of these incidents have a profound effect on a person life but because one has a tangible reward it is viewed more as a success.
My road to success is just beginning. Through hard work, dedication and motivation I plan to reach my peek of success. My short term goals right now are to focus in school. I plan on moving to Texas by next year to attend college out there. I want to get my bachelor’s degree in nursing, so I can become a registered nurse so then I can become a traveling nurse. I plan to travel to many foreign countries as a nurse. I am afraid that I will miss home, but I believe it will all be worth it in the end. I also plan to find a better place of employment so I can become more independent.
My long term goals are to get my masters in nursing and come back to California. My ultimate goal is to live with no regrets. As I continue my journey through life, I know that I will have more success and many more failures but instead of dwelling on just the major successes in life, I am going to look more at those small successes at different times of my life and not judge them by the material gain that I achieved from them but I will look at them as times in my life when I had a true sense of self and a knew whole heartily that I was making the right decision.