We can’t elucidate reality to unravel the secrets it beholds. It’s what puts us on hold, spreading curiosity throughout us, it’s the curiosity we linger on that controls our lives, but it shouldn’t be like that. Don’t ride the days as they go on, drive them to a destination that you please. Slowly in our lives we owe ourselves more and more and sometimes sadly it’s more work. You owe yourself happiness. It’s the thing young children have and Adults? Well yes, adults have it, do they have enough? Do you have enough happiness in your life? Fun as we all know can escort delight to the ill-soul, it’s an outstanding medicine that can take many different formations, these different forms people seek for but they can’t find, because they are inexperienced, they ride the days as they go on. Inexperience doesn’t mean your simple minded, it means you are unaccustomed to the real possibilities. Fun can be trying to challenge yourself or do something you like. What are other things that you guys enjoy?
Kindness in my opinion brings the most joy. It’s what really completes your day, it’s so strong it can turn 10 seconds into 4 pleasing hours to enjoy or maybe a whole day of fulfillment, not only that but it can become a personal challenge of being nice to others. You can challenge yourself to be nice until it becomes a routine. The reason why many people are inexperienced in being nice comes down to how they were grown up in a civilization where being nice is doing something for somebody else, but a thank you almost never cuts it for most. You need real gratification of your actions to really get the full power of happiness and that involves socializing. Socializing can be starting a conversation with someone, or a simple phrase that makes the person realize you are more than you look, bringing out more in them as a return. Don’t act like you’re a stranger to someone, shock them with kindness, make them come out of their normal lives and have them feel welcomed. Greet people, sometimes, with simple phrases like these “It’s cold outside but it’s warmer in here, or “You better hurry up it’s freezing out there.”
While holding a door for them can put a smile on their face and make them jump up in a hurry like if they were playing a game. Being nice isn’t just about the person, the place, or the extent it goes, niceness is the joy you should be bringing yourself too, it brings just as much pleasure as you want it to bring. Whether you are new or you’ve been doing it for a while, the person on the other side doesn’t know that, so what you show them is what they are going to get. Don’t let inexperience stop you from being nice. Control your feelings everyday up to your standards, not others, to yours, put effort into everything you do, think about others, and make everyone’s day with a hint of yours, because at the end of the day, joy will find you and you will find joy.
