There are valid concerns about trusting someone you have only met online. Many people fail to consider the potential dangers of meeting a stranger until something goes wrong. The first encounter with an unfamiliar person carries significant risks, including the possibility of harm, death, or theft.
During my time as a high school freshman, I discovered my love for collecting and selling basketball cards. My journey began with purchasing packs of cards that featured various basketball players. In order to find the most valuable ones, I would often trade cards with my friends, particularly searching for rare all-star basketball player cards. Through this process, I managed to gather a significant number of these highly sought-after cards.
Eventually, I decided to sell my collection on craigslist. To reach potential buyers, I created an advertisement offering classic basketball cards for sale at the price of one-hundred dollars. Opting for an online platform seemed more convenient and efficient compared to approaching people individually.
A few weeks later, an email arrived requesting a meeting to examine my collection. Despite not considering the potential danger, I eagerly agreed as I wanted to get rid of it. We arranged to meet at a familiar shopping center, but something seemed unusual about the buyer who had only communicated via email and refused to give a phone number.
Upon meeting, the buyer wore a blank expression that made me uneasy. Suddenly, he brandished a gun and demanded that I hand over the valuable cards in my possession. Reluctantly, fearing for my life, I complied with his demands. Shocked and fearful, I watched as he swiftly ran away while leaving me paralyzed.
This incident left me angry and disturbed by the realization that my life could have been in jeopardy. The profound impact it had on me serves as a lesson about the consequences of engaging with strangers online.
As a result of this experience, I now approach anyone on the internet with skepticism—whether they are selling items or seeking partners through dating apps. This wake-up call has taught me an important life lesson.
