Dear, I have recently come across a couple of essays that have provided me with valuable insights. These essays have prompted me to combine the distinct yet comparable ideas they present, leading to new perspectives on individuality and society. I would like to share these concepts with you.
In her essay “On Self-Respect,” Joan Didion suggests that our interactions with others greatly influence us, causing us to conform to false beliefs about ourselves due to a perceived unacceptance of our true identity. Didion argues that distancing oneself from societal expectations and developing indifference can result in self-respect. This made me question if I possess self-respect: Do I exhibit strong personal qualities? Am I free from external pressures? Can I acknowledge and learn from my mistakes? Perhaps not.
Similarly, another article explores the notion of individuality within society.
Spanish is the language that seamlessly flows in Rodriguez’s private world, while English is necessary for assimilating into public society. Although this may diminish his sense of private individuality, it allows him to achieve public individuality. Becoming part of “gringo society” enables him to confidently speak English and pursue rights and opportunities for full individuality. Thus, the loss of individuality can be advantageous.
The relationship between individuals and the public is a highly debated topic today. Rodriguez argues that suppressing one’s Spanish part allows their English part to flourish, whereas Didion believes that forcing oneself to become someone they are not betrays their true selves. Personally, I believe that the loss of individuality can have both positive and negative consequences depending on the circumstances.
For immigrants, assimilation may require leaving behind aspects of culture, heritage, and historical knowledge. This disconnection from their ancestors results in the destruction of their native culture and true identity.
