A person’s identity is shaped by many different aspects. Family, culture, friends, personal interests and surrounding environments are all factors that tend to help shape a person’s identity.
Some factors may have more of an influence than others and some may not have any influence at all. As a person grows up in a family, they are influenced by many aspects of their life. Family and culture may influence a person’s sense of responsibilities, ethics and morals, tastes in music, humor and sports, and many other aspects of life.
Friends and surrounding environments may influence a person’s taste in clothing, music, speech, and social activities.
Personal interests are what truly set individuals apart. An individual is not a puppet on the string of their puppet-master, nor a chess piece on their master’s game board, individuals choose their own paths in life. They accomplish, or strive to accomplish, goals that they have set for themselves throughout their lifetime.
Individuals are different from any other individual in the world because they live their own life rather than following a crowd of puppets.
A person’s identity is defined by what shaped it in the first place, why they chose to be who they are, and what makes them different from everybody else in the world. I feel that I have developed most of my identity from my own dreams, fantasies, friends, and idols. I am who I am partly because of my family, but mostly because of who I want myself to be.I will never be exactly what I want to be because of my family upbringing, but I can provide myself with opportunities to live a somewhat similar life.
I would have loved to be brought up in a family that was into off-road racing, such as trucks, snowmobiles, and dirt bikes, and since I was not, all I can do is give my best efforts to make those things a part of my life and hopefully, some day, my own family’s life. Society has had a limited impact on my lifestyle, mostly because I despise trends.The largest trends I despise are rap and hip-hop and the clothing, attitudes, and type of speech that that type of ‘music’ is breeding. I chose to steer away from that crowd, but it may also be because I live my life off of adrenaline.
My high on life is the energy I have when I get my blood pumping, my heart pounding, and my adrenaline raging. Most aspects of my individuality reflect that very well. I love hard, aggressive music, and also guns, but my passion in life is extreme sports, whether it be on a dirt bike, a bmx bike, a snowmobile, or a snowboard.I have a strong set of morals and ethics that I have partly adopted from my parents, but some are also partly my own.
My morals mostly consist of karma (being kind, caring, helpful, truthful, and considerate to others), not littering (especially in nature), respecting nature, keeping a clean and welcoming home, success that is measured with happiness and not possessions, and having strong family ties. I feel that I am very strongly rounded individual who is going to go far in life.Many people would agree with that, although some people just think that I am an absolutely crazy person who has a death wish and will not go anywhere but to the hospital or the morgue. Educational experiences also tend to influence a person’s identity.
I have not had too many educational experiences that have helped form who I am. Elementary and high schools try to teach a person to fit the mold. They want everyone to be the same so that it is easier for the faculty to do their job, but I never succumbed to all of that.All throughout school I have been my own person and done what I wanted to do.
Granted, I did get myself in quite a bit of trouble throughout grade school. My goal in college is to figure out what I want to do with my life. I need to find a career that will cover my expensive hobbies, but most importantly, that I enjoy and that I get satisfaction out of. I am currently studying construction management and I am hoping that I will decide it is the right path for me.
There is one aspect of construction that does not fit into my morals though, and that aspect is new developments.New developments require destroying previously undeveloped land, and there is already too little undeveloped land on earth. This aspect has gotten me interested in commercial construction which requires the use of undeveloped land less often than residential construction. So far, education has had no real impact on the person that I am, but hopefully by the time I finish college, it will.
I am very proud of the person that I have become. I have followed my own dreams, fantasies, friends, and idols to become the person that I am today.My family has influenced me as far as morals and values, my friends have influenced me in social activities, speech, and clothing, and my fantasies and idols have given me something to strive for in my life. Once a person takes the time to truly get to know me, they tend to see me as one of the greatest guys that they have ever met.
I will continue to live my life for individual that I am while taking into other people and not doing anything that may negatively affect another person’s life. I am currently very happy with the person that I am and will continue keep myself happy until the day I die.
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