Everyone in the world has faced obstacles in their life, which can range from small inconveniences to major challenges. These obstacles may include financial difficulties or even being homeless and trying to navigate life alone. People often learn from their own obstacles or by reading about the experiences of others. Although nobody wants to encounter difficulties, overcoming them is essential for personal growth and improvement.
In various books and movies like The Mighty, Of Mice and Men, and A Child Called “It”, I have gained insights into numerous challenges. In The Mighty, the two main characters confront their respective obstacles but find strength in supporting each other. Maxwell Kane endures the trauma of his father murdering his mother and having to navigate through his childhood without parents. He resides with his maternal grandparents, whom he affectionately refers to as “Gram” and “Grim”. Additionally, Max struggles with illiteracy, having failed 7th grade twice. To address this, he engages in reading tutoring, led by a fellow student named Kevin.
Kevin Dillon, a person with Morquio’s Syndrome who uses leg braces and crutches, faced constant bullying at school due to his disability and being perceived as a “nerd”. The bullies gave him the nickname “Freak”. Tragically, Kevin passed away while undergoing a procedure to obtain a reconstructed body.
Dave James Pelzer, born on December 29, 1960, in California, endured severe abuse inflicted by his mentally unstable and alcoholic mother. His mother had programmed him for many years with thoughts that bad children are taken to a certain place. Despite his difficult upbringing, Dave overcame his obstacles by sharing his story publicly and using it for educational purposes.
Initially appearing perfect, Dave’s family took a dark turn after the passing of his father. His own mother became the source of extreme abuse towards him. In fact, this case became the most severe instance of abuse in California history. For eight grueling years, Dave suffered under her hands.
When Dave was twelve years old, his teacher contacted the police to report the abuse he faced at home, leading to his removal and placement in foster care until he turned eighteen. Despite the challenges, Dave managed to overcome mental struggles and fears during his time in foster care. This experience motivated him to dedicate himself to raising awareness about abuse and providing education on this subject.
To accomplish this mission, Dave delivers speeches at various venues including schools, churches, and libraries. In addition to public speaking engagements, he has authored seven novels that address significant issues pertaining to abuse: A Child Called “It”, The Lost Boy, A Man Named Dave, The Privilege of the Youth, Help Yourself, and Help Yourself for Teens.
